Warm-up

Let's see what comes to mind — no notes, and don't worry about mistakes.

You already know one pattern like this. Complete the sentence:

"I'd like (go) home now — I'm tired."

SPEAK

Have a go out loud: say two things you'd like to do this weekend. Any two things — nothing has to be true yet.

Listen in on this conversation

A: What have you been up to lately?

B: I've started going to a pottery class on Tuesdays. I really enjoy making things with my hands. I've also decided to sign up for a photography course — I want to try something new.

Look again at what B says. Compare "enjoy making" and "decided to sign up". Both sentences have two verbs next to each other, but the second verb looks different each time. Why, do you think? Say your idea out loud before you check.

Check your idea CLICK
There's no logical reason — it's simply what each verb "wants". Enjoy always takes the -ing form. Decide always takes to + verb. The first verb decides the form of the second one, and you just have to learn which is which. That's what today is about.
Today: how the first verb decides -ing or to + verb — plus what happens when you add a person in the middle ("ask someone to do it") — so you can talk naturally about hobbies, plans and favours.

Things You Enjoy (and Can't Stand)

Some verbs are always followed by the -ing form. There's no "to" involved anywhere.

Spot the pattern

Three everyday sentences:

Before you check: what comes straight after enjoy, avoid, and can't stand?

Check the pattern CLICK
The -ing form every time (cooking, parking, waiting). These verbs never take "to + verb". Other common ones that work the same way: finish, mind, keep, suggest, imagine.
enjoy / finish / avoid / mind / keep / suggest / imagine / can't stand
+ verb-ing
A very common mistake: "I enjoy to cook" ✗ / "I avoid to drive in busy traffic" ✗ — these verbs never take "to". Always: enjoy cooking ✓ / avoid driving ✓.

From two sentences to one

"I collect stamps. I really enjoy it."
→
"I really enjoy collecting stamps."

Your turn

Complete each sentence. Type only the missing word.

1. My neighbour borrows my ladder again and again, and he never asks first.

Complain to a friend: "My neighbour keeps my ladder without asking."

2. It's warm in the room and you'd like some fresh air.

Ask politely: "Would you mind the window? It's a bit stuffy in here."

3. You'd rather see your colleague at a café than at the office.

Email them: "I suggested at the café instead of the office."

SPEAK

Say three things: one you enjoy doing, one you avoid doing, and one you can't stand doing in your free time.

Plans, Promises & Favours

Other verbs always take "to + verb". And when there's a person involved, that person goes in the middle.

Spot the pattern

Three everyday sentences:

What comes after decided, promised, and refused?

Check the pattern CLICK
to + verb every time. Other common ones that work the same way: want, hope, plan, offer, manage, agree.
want / decide / hope / plan / promise / offer / manage / agree / refuse
+ to + verb
A very common mistake: "She wants going" ✗ — these verbs never take -ing on their own. Always to + verb: "She wants to go" ✓.

What happens when there's a person in the middle

Compare these two:

"I want to leave early."
→
"I want you to leave early."

Same "to + verb", but now there's a person between them — because it's you who's leaving, not "I". It works the same with tell and ask: "She asked me to close the door." "They told us to wait outside."

tell / ask / want / would like + someone + to + verb

Your turn

1. You've emailed a colleague about a report that's due Friday.

Report what you did: "I've asked her the report by Friday."

2. Your current flat is too big and too expensive.

Tell a friend your plan: "We've decided to a smaller flat next year."

3. Your parents hope you'll become a doctor one day, but you haven't decided yet.

Explain the situation: "My parents want me medicine, but I'm not sure."

SPEAK

Tell me about something you've decided to do soon, and something someone has asked you to do this week.

Good At It, Interested In It

After any preposition, the verb always takes -ing — never "to".

Spot the pattern

Three everyday sentences:

Look at the small word right before each -ing verb (in, at, before). What kind of word is it?

Check the pattern CLICK
A preposition (in, at, before, after, about, for...). After any preposition, English needs a noun-like word — and the -ing form does that job. That's why it's always -ing here, with no exceptions.
preposition (in / at / before / after / about / for...)
+ verb-ing
A very common mistake: "good at to cook" ✗ — a preposition can never be followed by "to + verb". Always good at cooking ✓.

Your turn

1. Your colleague spends every lunch break with a history book.

Explain why: "She's interested in about ancient history."

2. Your colleague has a habit of reading her emails only at one particular moment.

Describe it: "She always checks her emails after breakfast."

3. You keep forgetting people's names at parties.

Admit it: "I'm not very good at names."

SPEAK

Say two things you're good at, and one thing you always do before leaving the house in the morning.

Your Turn to Talk

Time to use all three patterns in one real conversation. You do the talking.

The situation

Think about a normal week for you — your hobbies, a plan you've made, and a favour someone has asked of you (or you've asked of someone).

Talk about it out loud for one minute. Try to cover:

01:00

Now put it in writing

Write a short message (3–5 sentences) to a friend about your week — a hobby, a plan, and a favour. Use all three patterns from today. The checker will tell you which ones it finds.

Mix It Up

Real life doesn't tell you which pattern to use. Here everything is mixed — you decide.

Fix the mistakes

Each sentence has one grammar mistake. Rewrite the whole sentence correctly.

1. "I really enjoy to travel to new places."

2. "She wants going to the concert with us."

3. "He imagined to live in Australia one day."

4. "I'm good at to cook Italian food."

Which form fits?

5. Your teacher wants the homework finished on time. She says: "My teacher asked us ___ the homework by Monday."

6. You're stuck on the motorway again. "I can't stand ___ in traffic every morning."

7. A friend mentions a possible move abroad. "We're thinking about ___ to Portugal next summer."

SPEAK

One-minute challenge: a friend calls and asks you to help them move house this weekend. Say what you've decided to do, what you can't stand doing, and what you're not very good at — using the patterns from today. Use the timer above if you like the pressure.

What Do You Remember?

First, from earlier lessons

1. The pattern you already knew before today — complete it: "I'd like you something."

2. Say it out loud: what always follows a preposition like "in", "at", "before" or "after" — the -ing form, or to + verb? Why?

Compare with a possible answer CLICK
The -ing form. A preposition needs a noun-like word after it, and -ing turns a verb into something that behaves like a noun — so "interested in swimming", never "interested in to swim".

Now, today's grammar — fresh sentences, no looking back

3. Your grandmother spends every Saturday in the garden and loves it. Give the news: "My grandmother really enjoys at the weekend."

4. The roof has been leaking for weeks, but it's finally sorted. Tell a friend: "We've finally managed the leak in the roof."

5. After a check-up, the dentist gives an instruction. Report it: "The dentist told me back in six months."

Think back

Which practice helped you most today — fixing the mistakes, choosing the right form, or the speaking tasks? Say why you think that one worked for you.

Can you now...?

At the start we said: today you'd learn how the first verb decides -ing or to + verb, plus what happens with a person in the middle. Tick what's true:

Anything you didn't tick — go back to that tab and try the exercises once more. They'll still check your answers.

Next lesson: Stop, Remember, Try: Verbs That Change Meaning