Your friend from work is leaving. Today is their last day. Time to say goodbye, say thank you, and wish them good luck.
It is Friday evening. There is a small party in the office. There is cake, there are drinks in plastic cups, and everyone is talking. It is a happy party, but a little bit sad too.
It is sad because your friend Sam is leaving. Sam worked here for eight years. Now Sam has a new job in another city. Today is Sam's last day, and after today you will not see Sam every day.
So you want to say some nice words. Not a big speech — just a few kind words. You want to say goodbye, say thank you for the good years, and wish Sam good luck. Short and warm is perfect.
You are happy for Sam, but a little sad too. You want to say goodbye in a warm way, and say thank you for all the good years.
Kind, and a little shy today. Sam is happy about the new job, but sad to leave good friends. Sam does not like a big fuss.
Here are the phrases for this conversation. Read each one and say it out loud once. Choose the ones you like. Keep this page open when you practise.
Draw a card. Say what you would say, out loud. Then look at one answer.
Try a few more rounds with the toolkit covered. When it feels easy, you are ready.
Read it out loud, one person each, then change. Find the phrases from your toolkit. Listen for the warm, kind words.
1. Why is Sam leaving? Where is Sam going?
2. How does Sam feel about leaving — only happy, or something else?
3. At the end, Sam does not say "goodbye". What does Sam say instead? Why is that nicer?
No script this time. You have a real talk with a real person. You have a goal.
Say each sentence out loud. Use your own words in the gaps.
Pick a situation. Your partner plays the other person.
🏆 Say goodbye in a warm and simple way.
Start the scene. After a minute, draw a card. What it says just happened.
Now you are the other person. Your partner takes your old part.
Draw another twist if you like.
Tick what you did, in either seat.
Do it again. Draw a twist before you start. Try to do it faster this time.
A long time ago, in 1916, a man named Ernest Shackleton had to say goodbye to his men. They were on a cold, empty island. Shackleton got in a small boat to go and find help. Before he left, he made a big promise: "I will come back for you."
Many people say "keep in touch" or "I will visit you". Then they forget. But Shackleton did not forget. After many hard weeks, he came back — and he saved every man. Nobody died.
So when you say goodbye to a friend and say "keep in touch", try to keep your promise. A promise you keep turns a goodbye into a "see you soon".